Thoughts
1/16/2009
This has been a “trying week” for many especially in the area of family relationships. The best advice that I can offer is have faith, compassion, respect, and true communication. True communication means that you are really listening to each other. You aren’t thinking of your next response or come back. You aren't yelling. You aren't feeling defensive or feeling like that person is offending you (even if they are).
There are people who do not know how to express themselves.
This is the perfect time for you to listen to your intuition. Tune into that person. Read their body language. Look into their eyes. Don't make assumptions at what you think they are saying or what you want to hear. Don’t base it on what they have said or done to you you in the past.
Listen to what they are saying now.
Wipe the slate clean and listen.
No, it may not be something that you want to hear but that is okay too.
In a romantic relationship, so many women come to me and cannot understand why their men don't talk to them. Well, let me tell you why.
As soon as the guy starts to talk to the woman about something that makes the woman uncomfortable, she gets mad and becomes extremely angry. The fight starts and all "hell breaks loose" for days. So what has she taught her mate? She has taught him that he cannot talk to her.
Yet, when they started dating, he could tell her anything.
Her mate should be able to talk to her about absolutely anything.
The same goes with our children. They need to know that they can come to us about anything. Absolutely anything
When speaking to others, it is not about who is right or wrong. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. But how can you know another’s opinion if you don’t have communication? Every morning, ask for Divine Guidance and Divine Intervention to assist you. You will find your dimes and/or see your numbers and find that with faith, compassion, respect, and communication, all will work out.
BUT REMEMBER...YOU CANNOT CONTROL ANOTHER!!!!
You have to let others figure things out on their own. You can offer advice and listen.
You can only control your own life. We all have a life path. Remember, we do the best that we can do. We are here on a spiritual journey. Don't get stuck in the human path. We all chose each other to help each other along the way. Take the lessons from each person, learn it, teach it, grow and go....Love and compassion.. You know..when you find a stray animal..you give it food, love, and compassion.. We should do the same with humans....they will respond in the same manner. Only when you have done so much for someone and they are still draining you, then sometimes, you have to walk away. When you find that your life is not working because of another, you must put yourself first. Is this selfish? No. Especially in the case of another’s addiction. You cannot help another if you cannot help yourself first. You cannot help another if they do not want to help themselves. Please, always remember this. Sending you all MANY Angel Blessings, Love, Janie
1/9/2006
In the line of work I do.. People may comment,
"What kind of psychic is she if she couldn't see the truth?"
When in reality...I know what goes on but it’s not up to me to look at anyone with judgment.
Many people have their guards up and look at each other as if the other is lying. I don't do that with anyone. Yes, I know what’s going on but I also know timing is everything.
I like to refer to it as “Divine Timing”.
It is up to you to open up to me when you come to see me.
I look at all people with love and compassion. We are all here to learn lessons. The worst thing in the world is to be confronted when you are not ready to face the truth, even though you are guilty as hell.
If I confront you with something and you are not ready to be confronted with the issue, you will not accept what I am saying or you will make excuses and this will creating havoc and roadblocks. This is just the opposite of what I am here to do on my life path, which involves helping you to discover and focus on your own life path.
My job consist of pointing out the lessons that you have learned from living your life and you have learned plenty of lessons. You have had many life experiences beginning from childhood. I then show you how you can apply these lessons to make your life productive and happy. Your life lessons along with formal education and work experience is all very valuable. You have plenty of experience.
If you are reading this right now, you are a Lightworker. This simply means that before coming here, into this life, you have spiritually contracted to help others. Lightworkers generally have a tough childhood.
I have been Divinely taught and professionally, I have witnessed that when people are ready to come forth with the mistakes they have made –their confessions-then they are ready to learn from them and make the most of these lessons and move forward. They do so unashamed.
I see people from all walks of life. The victims-the abusers. Life issues and life experiences do not discriminate. Neither do Angels. We All have Them.
People share their most intimate secrets with me. They share things with me that they can share with no one else. I don’t judge..EVER. It is not up to me to judge you. I don’t like to be judged and I would never judge you.
I am honored to be that person in a position of trust. I am also someone who is obsessive compulsive about privacy. Here is a little secret about me. When our session is over and you leave or after we hang up, my memory is wiped clean. The secret is gone. Normally, I have a pretty good memory but when it comes to sessions, I feel The Other Side plays a vital role in the memory erase. When you come back or call back for another session, it does not taint the new session. I have brand new information for you based on the new session not based on old information from past sessions.
I am not alone with the work I do here. I work heavily with Jesus, Angels and People from the Other Side. I refer to Them as my Divine Family and Friends. I say that I work for God and Mother God…Mother God being Mother Nature..A term I have used since childhood. You can be of any religious denomination or of no denomination. I like to refer to my own denomination as Spiritual. I am a Minister. Yet by reading the above, you can see my beliefs. They are my beliefs. They do not have to be yours. The Other Side does not have categories.
Here, sadly.. we do..hence the hatred and discrimination comes into play.
When you come in, Your Divine Family and Friends come along as well. Never be ashamed. God gave you free will. Free will was given to you. It is a gift. When someone gives you a gift, you can do with it whatever you want. Hopefully, you use it for good. Not everyone chooses to do so. This is another topic for another week.
Too many people live with the motto that you have to earn my trust first. I feel this is backwards. You have my trust first. You have the trust of your Divine Family and Friends…Always... Regardless…You Never Let Them Down…Ever.
They Love You…and So Do I.
…. We are here to learn, teach, grow, and go.
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